Tom, 55–60
Eight months, most of it not reporting things he assumed were normal
I had been told it was common. I took that to mean I should not bother anybody about it.
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What gets reported, and what gets absorbed
People consistently under-report the experiences they assume are expected. That assumption is usually formed in the first appointment.
Elena Marchetti · 30 Jun 2026